We all have problems, right? Well, I am offering you a free coaching tool that you can use for just about any situation where you have a problem and looking for a solution. And all it takes is asking one question...


Let's try it out. Pick a problem in your life.

For example, maybe you are single and want to settle down, but dating has been less than perfect. Let's try this out and ask "why" at least 5 times to see what we come up with.

Why can't you find a good man?
1. Because all the good ones are taken, and the rest don't want a relationship. Why?
2. Most of the men I meet are on dating apps or out at bars and only want to hook up. Why?
3. I don't have time to go out and meet guys in natural settings. Why?
4. I work 60 hours a week and like to sleep when I'm not working. Why?
5. I want to be able to take care of myself and pay off my debt before I settle down. Why?
6. No one will want me if I am broke and up to my throat in debt.

See, now the real problem isn't that there are not any good men out there. As we use this exercise and the power of "why," we find out that the problem really lies in working too much and thinking that being debt free and not broke will make this person in the example more desirable. Now that we know the root of the problem, we can start to work on the answer which is simply accept yourself as you are or get a better, higher paying job or start and grown your own business.

The reason this works: when you are asking "why," you are digging deeper into the problem to reveal the source of the problem. Once you discover the source, then you can figure out what continual "loop" your mind perpetuates over and over again. Once you recognize these "red flags," you can figure out why these thoughts persist in your mind.


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Success & Lifestyle Coach

P.S.  If your'e ready to dive into the "whys" and want some guidance, email me at liz@lizjavier.com and setup a free 30-minute clarity call. It's free! You know what? I like you, so it'll be a free 60-minute clarity call if you book in October. You can start seeing results right away even in one call. I'll be waiting for you!